Assumptions

It's interesting how the nature of human mind work. We seem to assume the worst when we expect to hear from the other but don't.

I used to feel very anxious, rejected, neglected and furious every time if I didn't get any responses after I pull my heart out to express my feeling and try to communicate. It was very frustrating because I felt I was shouting at a stony wall without any echo. I assumed the letter or emails got missing, he just doesn't care enough to talk back, or all I have accused or assumed in my email are all true. Now I find the same theory can be applied on the Blog.

I haven't post anything here for two weeks and he starts getting worry coz he assumed I am still in the same status of mind as my last post which was rather dark. However, it was very nice of him writing me a long comment to share his own experience and support me as a true friend. I am sorry to hear about the similar journey, but glad that he could understand what I was going through.

How am I now? Better. Thank you my friend.