Tuesday, February 13, 2007

You have a choice to make...

With all that stress at work, I just have no room to deal with my own emotions and I have used alcohol to help my sleep :(

How much alcohol do I need to keep sleeping on a sleepless night?
Two shots of Slivo.
One before bed and the other one in the middle of the night when the first one went off.

Meredith: Time flies. Time waits for no man. Time heals all wounds. All any of us wants is more time. Time to stand up. Time to grow up. Time to let go. Time. (Grey's Anatomy, 2007)

Finn: I know you think you're scary and damaged...
Meredith: Dark and twisty.
Finn: It makes you feel like you don't deserve good things. But you do. And Derek - he's bad for you. But me - I'm a good thing. And if there's a race, if there is a ring, my hat is in. (Grey's Anatomy, 2007)

Derek: It means you have a choice. You have a choice to make. And I don't want to rush you into making the decision before you're ready.
Derek: I, I just, I just want you to take your time, you know. Take all the time you need, because you have a choice to make. And when I had a choice to make, I chose wrong. Goodnight (Grey's Anatomy, 2007)

1 comments:

jttjtt said...

Sometimes working things can get tough and require much more of us than we can give in the long term, so make sure you don't have to give it in the long term....

if there is consistently too much to do (and sometimes we have to work harder to fix a mistake we made) then it is your manager's problem. That is what he is there for. A good manager does not work his team to death. For one thing a tired worker is not a productive worker. Quite often completely the opposite.

Do not let his problem become your problem, he won't care at all if you end up needing stomach surgery in a few years....if you're continually doing overtime through no fault of your own then push back. If he can't handle it, he has no business being in that position.